Comments on: Always listen to your instincts http://www.staceykade.com/2010/04/07/always-listen-to-your-instincts/ Like Your High School ...Only Weirder Mon, 23 Jan 2012 03:35:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Stacey Kade http://www.staceykade.com/2010/04/07/always-listen-to-your-instincts/comment-page-1/#comment-58 Stacey Kade Tue, 15 Jun 2010 13:51:16 +0000 http://www.staceykade.com/?p=155#comment-58 Yeah, I'd pay attention to those feelings. :) They probably mean something. I don't know the situation, obviously, but I do distinctly remember having "friends" who I always felt like were more interested in laughing at me rather than with me. Rather than ditching them and finding better friends, I just tried that much harder to make them like me. It was exhausting. Some people only feel good about themselves when they're pushing other people down. That does get a little better when you get older, but it doesn't completely go away. You just learn to recognize it faster! :) If something you in you is telling you not to trust someone, then I wouldn't. It doesn't mean you have to cut him/her off completely, but definitely don't put yourself in a vulnerable position with that person. Like telling them a secret or going to a party where that person is your ride or something. Hang out more with other friends. Trust is a huge part of any good friendship. Yeah, I’d pay attention to those feelings. :) They probably mean something.

I don’t know the situation, obviously, but I do distinctly remember having “friends” who I always felt like were more interested in laughing at me rather than with me. Rather than ditching them and finding better friends, I just tried that much harder to make them like me. It was exhausting.

Some people only feel good about themselves when they’re pushing other people down. That does get a little better when you get older, but it doesn’t completely go away. You just learn to recognize it faster! :)

If something you in you is telling you not to trust someone, then I wouldn’t. It doesn’t mean you have to cut him/her off completely, but definitely don’t put yourself in a vulnerable position with that person. Like telling them a secret or going to a party where that person is your ride or something.

Hang out more with other friends. Trust is a huge part of any good friendship.

]]> By: cookie http://www.staceykade.com/2010/04/07/always-listen-to-your-instincts/comment-page-1/#comment-57 cookie Mon, 14 Jun 2010 17:49:52 +0000 http://www.staceykade.com/?p=155#comment-57 Something keeps telling me not to communicate with her, but then I feel bad about it and think its just me being paranoid and crazy. Something keeps telling me not to communicate with her, but then I feel bad about it and think its just me being paranoid and crazy.

]]> By: cookie http://www.staceykade.com/2010/04/07/always-listen-to-your-instincts/comment-page-1/#comment-56 cookie Mon, 14 Jun 2010 17:47:23 +0000 http://www.staceykade.com/?p=155#comment-56 I needed this, the situation is not the same, but I have this high school friend that for some reason I just don't trust. I want to stop communication but I don't want to be rude or considered high minded because I'm not. I just get a depressing feeling everytime she calls for some reason. I needed this, the situation is not the same, but I have this high school friend that for some reason I just don’t trust. I want to stop communication but I don’t want to be rude or considered high minded because I’m not. I just get a depressing feeling everytime she calls for some reason.

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